Re Civil Discourse: Gloria Steinem & Dave Chappelle on empathy, ocytocin, screwing up and authenticity

In response to Jane Finette’s article, “The Unravelling of Civil Discourse in America” It seems a lifetime since we were at Mozilla. It’s a pleasure to read the launch of “Common Ground”, thank you for putting your thoughts out there on such a relevant and timely topic.I’ll take on the homework assignment, and happily share anything … [Read more…]

An Invitation to Brave Space

Micky Scottbey Jones Together we will create brave space Because there is no such thing as a “safe space” We exist in the real world We all carry scars and we have all caused wounds. In this space We seek to turn down the volume of the outside world, We amplify voices that fight to … [Read more…]

This is the Year

B – This was a year – it was quite a year. Everything pivoted and turned on a dime (actually, pivoted on a wee little jibboo who came here to bring us love and joy and stress and strife and worry and adventure–be and zest). And I know you feel you have lost a bit, … [Read more…]

Avoidant

I’m going to have to talk about it. I’ve danced around the topic for years now, avoiding it with each therapist. Avoiding it with my husband, avoiding it with myself. But I am going to lose my marriage if I don’t talk about it. Sex is really hard for me within the bounds of a … [Read more…]

Patience

Seriously? I have none. Absolutely none. And I have a baby. Am I being dramatic? I have some I suppose, but it’s gone in a flash. What brings on that impatience? That voice in my head saying “I love you, Catanya” every time I get away from a task and I’m alone. Walking between meetings, … [Read more…]

The sweat was dripping off my thumb

when he stopped to pick me up. Thought I’d never get the infernal racket of the wind blowing through the god-damned wheat fields. Fucking husks. The air’s so dry the inside of my nose is bleeding from chafe up there. My eyes are beyond dry. “You need a drink?” he motions toward the cooler on … [Read more…]

My Dream

I woke up that morning with you laying on top of me. Your head resting on my stomach, your arms wrapped around my body like a pillow. One arm between my legs and cradling my back. You sighed and kissed my belly and it made my clitoris twitch. I cried your name so loudly I … [Read more…]